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This blog focuses on many human equality issues and positivity: i.e. gender ideals, sexual identity issues, gender rolls, racial issues, cultural issues, intersectionality, body/sex positivity, sex and masturbation, zines, literature, activism, age discrimination, classism, politics and all the in betweens, the good, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful. Questions and comments are welcome. Hatred is not.

I am a 21 year old queer pansexual female-identifying feminist/humanist/lover living in the Southwest region of the states. I am passionate, I create fire with words, and I believe that speaking up and making peaceful change is something that always fuels my human need to communicate. Perhaps you feel the same; if you do submit something! Speak up! Rant! Tell me your story! Together, let's make some noise.

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Passive Girls and Active Boys in Magazines
Notice that in this Children’s Place ad, both images with boys and the one with a mixed pair is captioned with activities (“travels,” “campers,” and “sporty favorites for hangin’”).  The caption under the lone girl, however, emphasizes “smiles,” a passive, pleasing appearance.  As Victoria says, “She is there to be cute.”
Similarly, in a three-page Fisher Price ad featuring racially-diverse children, both boys are shown as active learners.  In the first page, the text above a boy putting a train set together reads “Developing his attention span helps him learn to solve problems on his own”:
The text accompanying this child is also implies activity.  It reads, “He’s getting a good grasp of what his little fingers can do”:

But the text that goes along with the girl children playing with dolls only suggests that children, generally, grow:

Victoria also found that girls were sexualized.  In all of the ads featuring girls in bathing suits, she noted, the suit was a two-piece.  Here are two examples of frolicking beach babes:

She found this ad especially troubling.  The girl, she argues, “has been reduced to nothing but buttocks and genitalia”:

Meanwhile, Beth M. sent us these examples from a Land’s End catalog:

feministblackboard:

Passive Girls and Active Boys in Magazines

Notice that in this Children’s Place ad, both images with boys and the one with a mixed pair is captioned with activities (“travels,” “campers,” and “sporty favorites for hangin’”).  The caption under the lone girl, however, emphasizes “smiles,” a passive, pleasing appearance.  As Victoria says, “She is there to be cute.”

Similarly, in a three-page Fisher Price ad featuring racially-diverse children, both boys are shown as active learners.  In the first page, the text above a boy putting a train set together reads “Developing his attention span helps him learn to solve problems on his own”:


The text accompanying this child is also implies activity.  It reads, “He’s getting a good grasp of what his little fingers can do”:

But the text that goes along with the girl children playing with dolls only suggests that children, generally, grow:

Victoria also found that girls were sexualized.  In all of the ads featuring girls in bathing suits, she noted, the suit was a two-piece.  Here are two examples of frolicking beach babes:

She found this ad especially troubling.  The girl, she argues, “has been reduced to nothing but buttocks and genitalia”:

Meanwhile, Beth M. sent us these examples from a Land’s End catalog:

This is what a feminist looks like.
Happy National Feminist Coming Out Day! http://feministcomingoutday.com/
(This was my androgynous dress V-day, 2010. Reading Full Frontal Feminism by Jessica Valenti. I HIGHLY recommend it.)

This is what a feminist looks like.

Happy National Feminist Coming Out Day! http://feministcomingoutday.com/

(This was my androgynous dress V-day, 2010. Reading Full Frontal Feminism by Jessica Valenti. I HIGHLY recommend it.)

Alright Dave, let’s see here: Why do women complain about getting raped?
Let’s start off with saying that your ridiculous metaphors are anything but intelligent. They make you sound like a complete idiot. How can you say being raped is like being forced to accept free money? One of them is a harmless acceptance; the other, a lifelong, harmful struggle to say the very least.
Womyn do have many awesome options when it comes to their sexual lives. WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR SEX LIVES. WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR SEX LIVES. Being forced against your will is not your sex life. It is an attack; a brutal, cruel, heartless, cowardly attack by a brutal, cruel, heartless coward. Consent, consent, consent is what is sexy and if there is no consent between the two or three or more parties involved, then it is not consensual sex. It is called rape, and rape is not a choice.
I’ve been raped before, and never have I thought I was “complaining” about it when I finally spoke up about it. I felt relieved, like a huge weight had been lifted but there was so much more pain to come. Why? Because it ruined me for a long time. You, Dave, will probably never know what rape victims have to go through because you’re an ignorant douchebag. Complain about free oxygen… let that one soak through your brainless head once more.
So, we’ve covered the basics here, Dave. To you, rape is free sex. The part that you’re missing is… rape isn’t even about sex. Rape is about power, about rendering the victim helpless, about taking control of something you are not supposed to have control over. Rape is not a joke. Rape is not positive. Rape is a disgusting power-hungry trip done only by cowards. And ladies and gentlemen, if you’ve ever been raped, had a friend who has been raped, a mother, an aunt, a sister, or even heard stories about people you don’t know who have been raped, speak up about it. This rape culture we live in is a terribly sad excuse, like Dave here. Keep speaking up, keep advocating, keep being an activist and together, let’s make some noise about it.
Photo submitted by MarshmellowDoom

Alright Dave, let’s see here: Why do women complain about getting raped?

Let’s start off with saying that your ridiculous metaphors are anything but intelligent. They make you sound like a complete idiot. How can you say being raped is like being forced to accept free money? One of them is a harmless acceptance; the other, a lifelong, harmful struggle to say the very least.

Womyn do have many awesome options when it comes to their sexual lives. WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR SEX LIVES. WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR SEX LIVES. Being forced against your will is not your sex life. It is an attack; a brutal, cruel, heartless, cowardly attack by a brutal, cruel, heartless coward. Consent, consent, consent is what is sexy and if there is no consent between the two or three or more parties involved, then it is not consensual sex. It is called rape, and rape is not a choice.

I’ve been raped before, and never have I thought I was “complaining” about it when I finally spoke up about it. I felt relieved, like a huge weight had been lifted but there was so much more pain to come. Why? Because it ruined me for a long time. You, Dave, will probably never know what rape victims have to go through because you’re an ignorant douchebag. Complain about free oxygen… let that one soak through your brainless head once more.

So, we’ve covered the basics here, Dave. To you, rape is free sex. The part that you’re missing is… rape isn’t even about sex. Rape is about power, about rendering the victim helpless, about taking control of something you are not supposed to have control over. Rape is not a joke. Rape is not positive. Rape is a disgusting power-hungry trip done only by cowards. And ladies and gentlemen, if you’ve ever been raped, had a friend who has been raped, a mother, an aunt, a sister, or even heard stories about people you don’t know who have been raped, speak up about it. This rape culture we live in is a terribly sad excuse, like Dave here. Keep speaking up, keep advocating, keep being an activist and together, let’s make some noise about it.

Photo submitted by MarshmellowDoom

[Feminists are] just women who don’t want to be treated like shit.
Su, an Australian women interviewed for the 1996 anthology


FUCK. Robert. Pattinson.

“I really hate vaginas. I’m allergic to vagina. But I can’t say I had no idea, because it was a 12-hour shoot, so you kind of get the picture that these women are going to stay naked after, like, five or six hours. But I wasn’t exactly prepared. I had no idea what to say to these girls. Thank God I was hungover.”

http://www.details.com/celebrities-entertainment/cover-stars/201003/twilight-star-actor-robert-pattinson-remember-me

I hope the ladies who hold him high in their lives read this and get the real side of the misogynistic, ANTI-female male Pattinson is. As if you couldn’t tell after he was cast as the “stone-cold” vampire who didn’t actually have an emotional range.
And then we wonder why some women and most young girls these days don’t respect themselves. They have enough to worry about without this “dream guy” telling them that he doesn’t even RESPECT their lady parts.
Ya’ll ladies need to recognize.

Feminist zine on Etst, a global handmade and vintage marketplace ↘

Tavis Smiley interviews Eve Ensler, February 2010 ↘

Good Porn: A woman’s guide (click photo for more)

Good Porn: A woman’s guide (click photo for more)